Thursday, November 12, 2015

A moon-lit night sans the moon

Someone once found it intriguing that I knew what the moon will be like on a given night. It is just that I try to keep track of what the moon stage would be upon the night fall whenever I reminisce. Rest assured, I wasn't being a lunatic.

Only she knew why I would seek out the moon at nights.  Just like I did the other night.

The night she left me.

But, I wasn't seeking the moon solely because it carried romantic vibes. I did it because I'd rarely seen a brighter night. And, I figured there had to be moon somewhere in the sky that had illuminated the sky so bright.

Little did I know that it was her.

I wouldn't call her a romantic type to be mentioned in a blog about the moon.  She spent most of her life without the life partner.  But boy she could brighten up people's life true to her name.

Qammar was her name.  Which means the moon.  In Arabic.  And in Urdu too.

Her nickname was Chanda. Which affectionately meant the moon. You get the drift.

And, I was over the moon when I was invited to hop on to the car to share the ride alongside her.

Soon after thanking the gentleman who let me on board with her, I broke the ice and started whispering to her.

My whispers turned into sobs as I told her that this 45 minutes ride shall be our final journey together.

The two Multani siblings united one last time.

A year later, I was back in Markham, Ontario.

Seeking a re-union.

So, naturally, I was in a hurry to visit her. More so because the crisp early autumn daylight was fading rapidly on the Canadian horizon.

It was the seventh day of the lunar month.  I knew it, of course.

I was keeping track of what the moon will be like that night.

What I witnessed moved me yet again.

The waxing moon was shining brighter than usual right above where she rested.

Whispering.

Flash back to a year ago. To that final journey with her on that brightly lit night.

In the hearse.

I had asked the undertaker if he could see the moon in the sky.

He hadn't answered. How could he state the obvious?

It wasn't the moon that was illuminating the sky.  It was the noble, tranquil soul of my late sister, Chanda bajia, that was being welcomed in the heavens that night.

"Houston, this is Tranquility".  The voice over the radio would crackle as it travelled across the vast space, more than two hundred thousand miles.

Tranquility. That was the Apollo 11 mission's radio handle when it called Houston on the Earth. From the moon.

And the Earth was oh so brightly lit, the moon was still 200 thousand miles away from Houston.

But a mere whispering distance from Markham it seemed. I didn't have to look far for it. Just above her grave, the moon had risen up even before the sun had completely set - eager, just as I was, for the re-union with her namesake.

No need for the radio.

Just a quiet word, a whisper really, would reach her.

Just like Chanda right next to bajia.

And, tranquility was all I saw being showered in abundance on her.


Wednesday, June 10, 2015

The Young Faithful Heart

"But the noblest thing which perished there
Was that young faithful heart."

On May 6, 2014, just nine days before her birthday, I buried my beloved sister who had succumbed to cancer.

There was another funeral, that of a 13 year old young boy, who was also buried just yards away. Both funerals' pallbearers joined to pay their respects and said their prayers over both the departing souls.

The memory of my sister, "bajia" as we called her, flooded back. She was studying A-Level, and I... well I was just trying to finish my homework on the poem "Casablanca" so I could go and play - besides, I was not sure why the boy on the burning deck couldn't just bail out too.

My gallant sister taught me, there and then, the virtues of that 13 year old boy on the burning deck.

Couple of weeks ago, I saw bajia stand "on the burning deck / Whence all but she had fled".  She was the Casablanca personified. She looked the cancer in the eye and fought til her last breath - all by herself.  To me, she was in the company worthy of that 13 year old boy - died more than a century ago... but buried a mere yards away.

Happy Birthday Bajia... May 15, 2014.

Thursday, May 22, 2014

The Best Friends

She introduced me to my two best friends.

At least, she hoped I would consider them as my best friends.

The first of these two landed me in a bit of a pickle…

But then, after the initial bump in the road, I have savored that best friend to this day.

What landed me in trouble was mostly the fault of my own.

The punishment I got was par for the course.

Especially when the course was nothing but the laziness I showed in completing a task assigned to me.

And it was a simple task too:

Write an essay!

These days, it could be chalked up to a condition commonly known as the writer’s block.

But I am not a writer.

Not yet, and certainly wasn't back then.

But, the way she set about helping me seemed to suggest she considered me one.

And she certainly thought I was suffering from such an acute symptom.

Anyways, when I showed that rather chronic symptom of the worst kind of laziness, and her repeated attempts to stimulate my mind out of that slumber fell on deaf ears, she wrote the essay for me.

Problem solved!

Wait just a minute, you might ask…

What about that first best friend? 

And, what happened to the jar of pickle that I had landed in? 

Was that friend worth it?

Allow me to explain...

Getting summoned to the principal’s office was no small jar of pickle.

He was not only the principal of the school, but he also doubled up as our 7th grade English teacher.

It certainly loomed large on my slender self back then as the mother of all pickles.

And I knew I was in it the moment I saw my brightly colored notebook held by the peon close to his chest as he walked into the 7th grade class room.

I was summoned. 

It was no surprise to me then just as it was no surprise to me, in more recent times, when I ran into that best friend again at her place.

But let's not get ahead of ourselves. More on that encounter later.

Another place I was scared to be in, just as much as the principal’s office, was when I was locked up in a room with my second best-friend-to-be, 14 years later as part of a little ice-breaking game at our Nikah ceremony.

Although, another one of the VIP ladies in my life was the real culprit behind that setup, I owe it to the lady I began this blog with for instilling in me a better appreciation for my wife.

And she would remind me of my responsibilities in her typical, affectionate way ever since - citing two years she spent as a room-mate with my future wife during her high school years.

She convinced me that the true companion of my solitude has been right there all along in the love and care that I enjoyed from my better half, my second best friend.

But, I had learned the meaning of the word solitude the hard way.

Flash back to the 7th grade and the principal’s office.

He demanded that I give him the meaning of this word.

Solitude.

He set that condition as my only way out of the jam (or the pickle if you will) that I was in.

Mind you, the medium of instructions at my school was Urdu. So, the word solitude was not exactly a walk in the park.

This word was used in the essay I submitted. I was supposed to have written that essay myself. The sentence was, “… gives me company and comforts me in my solitude.

That sentence has been burnt into my memory ever since. As if I had written it myself.

If only I could convince him of that!

The lady who was responsible for making me realize my role as a husband and a father was also responsible for introducing me to my first love, back when I was in the 7th grade.

The topic of the essay assigned to the class was “My Best Friend.

And I, or rather she, had begun that essay with, “My book is my best friend…

A good book gives me company and comforts me in my solitude”, She went on to write.

So, who was that lady responsible for trying to introduce me to my two best friends?

She was my late sister, Qammar Jabeen Khan.

She succumbed to cancer on May 6, 2014.

We pray to God that He Enters her in the highest echelons of the Paradise. Ameen.

One of the last things she bought, just days before she died, was a couple of knitting/crochet magazines. And, she had started reading the magazines right there in the car on our ride home.

Books have always been her best friends

And she certainly tried to instill that love for books in me very early.

Whether I have truly accepted book as my best friend is another matter. But you walk into the study at her home and you see the whole wall decked with bookshelves: With books neatly arranged and categorized.

Then you walk down to the basement and there is another library full of books of all kinds.

There again, in her home, I ran into that best friend that she taught me long ago to befriend.

Had I done so, I could certainly find comfort in that friend in my solitude.

Like she did as she raised her five kids all by her lonesome.

Lonesome?

Solitude?

Or was she surrounded by her best friends?

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

The Bostonians In Distress? Never, In the Face of Terror!

The brave Bostonians have shown that they can not be unnerved by the cowardly act of terrorism.

Bostonians
Overcome
Scare &
Terror
Of a
Nightmare marathon.

We pray for the victims and resolve to find the cowards who did this.


Thursday, December 13, 2012

The Fiscal Cliff and Its Impact: Explained.

Fiscal Cliff:  It is defined as the fast-approaching point (January 1, 2013) where we shall collectively experience a free-fall that will bring us all back down to Earth!  It is the fiscal equivalent of "Clifford the Big Red Dog" where all the big dogs on the Wall Street will see their financial reports overwhelmingly immersed in "red" (a term that is used to describe fiscal losses).

Impact: The impact shall be a high velocity splatter on the ground. Except that this particular splatter, being fiscal in nature, will be all green.  The green matter splattered all over the place will be sucked up by the folks who shall land safely soon after - aka the savvy Golden Parachute toters of the 2008 fiscal debacle.

What To Do? Just check in your wallets and check-books at the Cliff and kiss your fiscal behind good-bye.

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Thankful? You bet!

So much so that I wonder why would I need to trample over other people when the stores open at 4 AM (or midnight or even Thursday night!) on Black Friday when just a day before that I was unabashedly thankful for everything that I already have?

The Thanksgiving Creep

 




Monday, November 19, 2012

Gaza On My Mind

Backdrop

Song with Lyrics

Gaza, Gaza
The whole day through
And drones all night long
Keep Gaza on my mind

I said Gaza,  Gaza
A song of you
Comes as sad as babies' funerals
As mothers' sobs through her cryin' 

US Arms reach out to whom?
UN smiles tenderly
Still in a peace fantasy I see
All roads blocked to you

I say Gaza, oh Gaza
No peace I find
Just bombs, same old bombs
Keep Gaza on my mind

US Arms reach out to whom?
UN smiles tenderly
Still in a peace fantasy I see
All roads blocked to you

ooh Gaza, Gaza
No peace, no peace I find
Just Israel's old, beaten song
Keeps Gaza on my mind


There'll always be Gaza!



With apologies to and credits to: late Ray Charles and his wonderful classic "Georgia On My Mind"